Every relation experiences a time when things become routine. The same go-to moves may not be getting the job done as well as it used to and one or both partners might be bored. Predictability leads to boredom and boredom sometimes leads to infidelity.
Although there is no sure-fire way to prevent a partner from straying, there are things couples can do to keep boredom at bay, put a little spice in their sex lives, and bring the fireworks back. Incorporating sex toys in and out of the bedroom is a great way to add variety, and experience different sensations.
Fuzzy handcuffs are a fun way to push boundaries and explore how much partners trust each other in the relationship. There is a plethora of ways to use handcuffs with or without supplementary objects. Adding a blindfold to the mix will increase the sensations a partner feels when he/she is touched. Handcuffs can be combined with any sex toy for a little extra fun.
For the more adventurous couple, exploring sensations are a good idea. Every woman has an inner dominatrix waiting to get out. Bring her out with a tickler or spanking toy, like a riding crop or flogger. From gentle little love taps to stinging swats on the butt, spanking toys provide several levels of sensory and sexual exploration.
Tip: Ad heightened sensory perception with a blindfold. Loss of sight elevates the other four senses, so touch will be more sensitive.
Vibrators are popular sex toys among singles, but couples wanting to bring variety into their sex lives love them too. There is a plethora of vibrator styles from the standard one-speed, tapered massager to the rabbit vibrators with the clitoral stimulators that many women prefer.
There are several ways to select a vibrator, and depending on how bold both partners are. A couples vibrator, which is designed for dual stimulation might be a good investment for couples who would like to use them during intercourse rather than just foreplay.
If the same old, humdrum position(s) is boring, games like the sex deck and erotic dice are the perfect sex toys to break the monotony. These items open up the arena for a larger variety of sexual positions and acts. The sex deck is a deck of 52 cards with a different position on each card. Pull a card and assume the position, and voila, the sexual repertoire has been expanded. Erotic dice are fun because one die has six body parts and the other has six actions and the possible combinations are limitless which can mean hours of fun discovering each others’ bodies all over again.
Sex toys don’t have to be specifically made for sex. Anything that can create a romantic, sensual experience between a couple can be considered a sex toy. For instance, a feather boa, although it was not designed specifically as a toy, can be used to tickle and tease one another creating new sensations during foreplay and intercourse. Candle wax is another example of an item that was not designed specifically for an erotic interlude but, used with care, can create a sexual sensory experience.
From love swings to whips and nipple clamps, the world of sex toys is abundant and any couple wishing to break out of a sex rut would do well to explore their options in the sex toy arena. The options are limitless and there is plenty of fun to be had.