Every relationship experiences a time when things become routine. The same go-to moves may not be getting the job done as well as it used to and one or both partners might be bored. Predictability leads to boredom and boredom sometimes leads to infidelity.
Although there is no sure-fire way to prevent a partner from straying, there are things couples can do to keep boredom at bay, put a little spice in their sex lives, and bring the fireworks back. Incorporating sex toys in and out of the bedroom is a great way to add variety, and experience different sensations.
With some any options to choose from, it can be a bit intimidating to shop for sex toys. And, if you’re uncomfortable going into an adult toy store the intimidation factor can be all the more discouraging. But with so many online stores to choose from nowadays, you can find a new toy that meets you and your partner’s needs at a price you can afford.
If the same old, humdrum position(s) is boring, games like the Kamasutra sex deck and the Book of Dares are the perfect sex toys to break the monotony. These items open up the arena for a larger variety of sexual positions and acts. The sex deck is a deck of 52 cards with a different position on each card. Pull a card and assume the position, and voila, the sexual repertoire has been expanded. Erotic dice are fun because one die has six body parts and the other has six actions and the possible combinations are limitless which can mean hours of fun discovering each others’ bodies all over again.
Less Risque Toys
If your sex life has been vanilla for a while, you might not want to push the boundaries too far yet. But, something fun and frisky might be up your alley. For example furry cuffs and a blindfold are a fun way to push boundaries and explore how much partners trust each other in the relationship. There is a plethora of ways to use handcuffs with or without supplementary objects. Adding a blindfold to the mix will increase the sensations a partner feels when he/she is touched. Handcuffs can be combined with any sex toy for a little extra fun.
Bonus: Ice and/or warming lubricants can kick the spice up another notch.
For the more adventurous couple, exploring sensations are a good idea. Every woman has an inner dominatrix waiting to get out. Bring her out with a riding crop, a tickler, flogger or spanking toy, like a riding crop or flogger. From gentle little love taps to stinging swats, spanking toys provide several levels of sensory and sexual exploration.
Tip: Add heightened sensory perception with a blindfold. Loss of sight elevates the other four senses, so feeling is intensified.
Vibrators are popular sex toys among singles, but couples wanting to bring variety into their sex lives love them too. There is a plethora of vibrator styles from the standard one-speed, tapered massager to the rabbit vibrators with the clitoral stimulators that many women prefer, to couple’s vibrators that enhance intercourse.
There are several ways to select a vibrator, and depending on how bold both partners are. A couples vibrator, designed for dual stimulation might be a good investment for couples who would like to use them during intercourse rather than just foreplay.
Vibrators come in so many sizes, focus on so many areas it can be overwhelming to choose the right one for your needs. They focus on clitoral stimulation, vaginal/g-spot stimulation/anal stimulation, dual stimulation and multiple stimulation. Not to mention couple’s stimulation. We suggest the We-Vibe Chorus couples vibrator in this case.
When shopping for a vibrator you should focus on the pleasure you want to receive. It might be tempting to go all-in on the first purchase, but the item you want will likely be there when you’re ready.
Non-Sex Sex Toys
Sex toys don’t have to be specifically made for sex. Anything that can create a romantic, sensual experience between a couple can be considered a sex toy. For instance, a feather boa, although it was not designed specifically as a toy, can be used to tickle and tease one another creating new sensations during foreplay and intercourse. Candle wax is another example of an item that was not designed specifically for an erotic interlude but, used with care, can create a sexual sensory experience.
From love swings to whips and nipple clamps, the world of sex toys is abundant and any couple wishing to break out of a sex rut would do well to explore their options in the sex toy arena. The options are limitless and there is plenty of fun to be had.Follow us on social: